Would you like to be able to form better relationships or to deal in a more positive way with current relationships that are causing you emotional unrest?
Our whole life from the moment of birth is built around relationships involving love. Unfortunately our human self (ego) has many needs, wants, and desires from within these relationships especially its parents, care givers, siblings, partners, workmates which can produce personal problems. When the egos needs, wants and desires are not fulfilled then the ego self becomes disillusioned, from which point many emotional issues begin to take over the ego self’s life.
It is at this point when you will most likely seek help. I am here to help you through those hurdles that pop up in your life when you least want them to.
How these emotional issues affect us varies not only by the nature of the issue but also by the depth of the emotion. This creates another form of control for the ego self either controlling or being controlled by the issues within that particular relationship which is basically a fear.
The ego self has a concept of what love should be and how it should be expressed. When these concepts are not being met to the ego’s satisfaction, then the ego self will feel that it is not being loved or is not lovable.
There are numerous variations on this aspect of relationships alone.
How then can you make changes that will personally help you to bring about a more positive view of relationships?
What is your fear? Do you know? The chances are that you perhaps have never thought of it in this way.
The first step is to have a more positive relationship with your ego self, then with your spiritual self, eventually bringing the two together in love and harmony - the "Perfect" relationship.
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